Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Wedding Wednesday: We're a Match!

Back in June we had our second meeting at church with our Pastor, Nikki.  Before we went we had to each take a personality test.  Of course I knew Derek & I we're compatible but the results from our tests confirmed it..
we are a highly compatible match!!  

We took the Jung Personality Test.  I was a ESFJ (Extravert, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) and Derek was an ENFP (Extravert, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving).

Some of our characteristics for each of our type's was dead on and highly complimented the other.

ESFJ Characteristics: Sympathetic, Practical, Realistic, Down to Earth, Sociable, and the last two... Organized/Orderly and committed to preserving traditions (I mean hello, dead on with those two) 

ENFP Characteristics: Curious, Creative, Spontaneous, Energetic, Enthusiastic, Persuasive

Characteristics of Both: Warm, Friendly, Personable, Social, Supportive

We got packets of the information and as Nikki was reading our results and characteristics and information we were so in awe because it was so interesting to us that it was so true!

The Affects of Our Characteristics and How We Will Bring Different Things to our Marriage:

{Christina}: Focus on what works now, Use lists and agendas for each action, Need occasional praise, Like to get things settled and finished

{Derek}: Dislike doing the same thing repeatedly, Work in bursts of energy powered by enthusiasm with slack periods in between, adapt well to changing situations

Both of us could be at peace but just taking a walk outside in nature, how simple!

We both found it all so interesting!

Xo C


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